Draw

I realized today that my personally draws, more than comes.

What I mean is that I have a lot of mannerisms that invite people in--whether it's my natural body language or verbal language... I just have a lot of aspects to my life that pull people into my world.

I also noticed that a lot of the time that I explore other cultures or people or venture in their little worlds to gain an understanding of them, it's relaly just to get them figured out so that I can convince them to join my own world.

Ethnocentrism? No. Because I see their world and I really do take things from it--but only the best things or the things that I think are worthy of taking in. The rest of it is that stuff that just doesn't work out and I throw it out.

I suppose this sound like I'm a very persuasive and possibly manipulative person. But I beg to differ--I'm just a rare breed of people who have natural tendencies for leadership and who people find it easy to follow.  

The real point that I want to make is that there are SOOOO many people who don't let others into their lives. That don't branch into other worlds. That don't know how to organize things or coordinate things--These are the ethnocentric people. Why? Because they are STUCK in their behavior and they blame others for being out of it. --I think there is a difference even though it might not sound like it...